Hi, GodFood. Good to see you back!
Not sure if you still remember me, we met on Elysium Isle back last September. Actually I joined that shard after reading your recommendation here. Just thought I may be able to provide a couple of good leads. Your talent is too good to be put on idle.
Crystal from EI is building a shard, address at
http://devineintervention.infoI am helping with some of the scripting on and off. Not sure if you still have contact with her. Feel free to check it out.
I myself also have a small shard under development, and going live on or before June 1st, if you noticed my other post. Not a perfect match of your requirement list, mostly the established playerbase, which I am currently lacking (the rest of the list I think have several good matches), but you are certainly very welcome to stop by and check it out.
http://www.medievaldream.comYou may like either one of these, you never know.

Again, welcome back to UO world.
Rocko